Marriage Lessons By Obamas
She is without a doubt one of the greatest women that the world has seen.
You look up to Michelle Obama and you see an epitome of power, poise, kindness
and glamor. The former First Lady of the USA, in the 8-years of her being in
power, didn’t leave an opportunity to use her voice and stature to spread the
peace, love and wisdom.
Michelle Obama Journey
And, even as she moves on from the duty of serving as the FLOTUS, she
doesn’t fail to remind the young Americans that the power is still in their own
hands, “I want our young people to know that they matter, that they belong. So
don’t be afraid. Be focused. Be determined. Be hopeful. Be empowered. Empower
yourself with a good education. Then get out there and use that education to
build a country worthy of you boundless promise. Lead by example with hope;
never fear.”
Michelle Obama Marriage Tips
It’s just plain curiosity to wonder how Michelle LaVaughn Robinson Obama
works outside the position of power; in her marriage and as a mother. What
makes her and her marriage and motherhood stand out, can be easily seen through
the following lessons that she once shared reminding us that she’s as normal as
us.
1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than
the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her
husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is
more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.
2. Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a
team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important
than keeping score. Good marriages don’t just happen. They are a product of
hard work.
3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions
on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them
hope. Make them look forward to marriage.
4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is
because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is
watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the
fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful
woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make his woman admirable and beautiful.
5. A successful marriage doesn’t require a big house, a
prefect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the
above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires
honesty, undying commitment and selfless love at the center of it all.
6. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence
on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.
7. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other
spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife
work together as a team to build their marriage.
8. Don’t take your spouse for granted. Don’t take advantage of
your spouse’s meekness and goodness. Don’t mistake your spouse’s loyalty for
desperation. Don’t misuse or abuse your spouse’s trust. You may end up
regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.
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